How To Make Lovemaking Last Longer
It is the dream of every man who is having premature ejaculation to be able to last long in their lovemaking. Men that finish too soon in lovemaking will feel frustrated and embarrassed because of their inability in satisfying their women.
If you are having such problem, don’t feel sorry much as there are many guys who are facing the same problem as you. Medical studies showed that as many as 40% of all men are regular “ premature ejaculators” who cannot hold up for more than two minutes in sexual intercourse. In a survey made by reputable men’s magazines, 75% of men interviewed said that they wish to last longer in the game.
Do you think that you are a quick shooter?
Judging a man’s sexual endurance from how long he could last before ejaculate is not the real or true indicator for sexual fuilfilment between a couple. The better indication rely much on how and when the female partner reach her orgasm or sex satisfaction. If she can reach the climax before your two-minutes game, do you feel that you are having a premature ejaculation? Most medical professional and sex therapists will think not. There is no need to stay for 10 or 20 minutes if the couple are not enjoying the game.
So the task now is for men to lower the time taken for their female partners to reach her climax through some proven techniques which will be discuss in the later chapter.
But not many men will heed to the above as they would still prefer to have the ability to last longer. This is further substantiated when the men’s sexual endurance is often become the measure of his masculinity and sign of confidence.
Therefore, how could the men last longer and give their partner the pleasure that she desire? Here are two simple tips :-
Tip #1 - "Mind over body": When a guy become too anxious about their performance in bed, they tend to ejaculate too fast. Ejaculation early is resulted from our bodies’ natural mechanism to release tension. So if guy want to last longer, just simply relax the mind during lovemaking. How to achieve this? Practice deep breathing before and during the game. Perform releasing the breath during penetration and inhale when withdrawing.
Tip #2 - "Slow burning furnace": It is a norm that men always tend to rush in lovemaking and reach climax too soon. Instead of thrusting right through the target, it is better to take it slowly. Guy must enjoy the whole sexual process rather than focusing on the intercourse itself. Take your time to give your partner the pleasure first. Do it slowly and both of you will enjoy the game together much better and you will realise that you can last longer.
