How To Make Lovemaking Last Longer

How To Make Lovemaking Last Longer

It is the dream of every man who is having premature ejaculation to be able to last long in their lovemaking. Men that finish too soon in lovemaking will feel frustrated and embarrassed because of their inability in satisfying their women.

If you are having such problem, don’t feel sorry much as there are many guys who are facing the same problem as you. Medical studies showed that as many as 40% of all men are regular “ premature ejaculators” who cannot hold up for more than two minutes in sexual intercourse. In a survey made by reputable men’s magazines, 75% of men interviewed said that they wish to last longer in the game.

Do you think that you are a quick shooter?

Judging a man’s sexual endurance from how long he could last before ejaculate is not the real or true indicator for sexual fuilfilment between a couple. The better indication rely much on how and when the female partner reach her orgasm or sex satisfaction.  If she can reach the climax before your two-minutes game, do you feel that you are having a premature ejaculation? Most medical professional and sex therapists will think not. There is no need to stay for 10 or 20 minutes if the couple are not enjoying the game.

So the task now is for men to lower the time taken for their female partners to reach her climax through some proven techniques which will be discuss in the later chapter.

But not many men will heed  to the above as they would still prefer to have the ability to last longer.  This is further substantiated when the men’s sexual endurance is often become the measure of his masculinity and sign of confidence.

Therefore, how could the men last longer and give their partner the pleasure that she desire? Here are two simple tips :-

Tip #1 - "Mind over body":  When a guy become too anxious about their performance in bed, they tend to ejaculate too fast. Ejaculation early is resulted from our bodies’ natural mechanism to release tension. So if guy want to last longer, just simply relax the mind during lovemaking. How to achieve this? Practice deep breathing before and during the game. Perform releasing the breath during penetration and inhale when withdrawing.

Tip #2 - "Slow burning furnace": It is a norm that men always tend to rush in lovemaking and reach climax too soon. Instead of thrusting right through the target, it is better to take it slowly. Guy must enjoy the whole sexual process rather than focusing on the intercourse itself. Take your time to give your partner the pleasure first. Do it slowly and both of you will enjoy the game together much better and you will realise that you can last longer.

Does Sprays work to Manage Your Premature Ejaculation?

 Does Sprays work to Manage Your Premature Ejaculation?

In the world today, everything need instant solution, be it gaining weight, lose weight or getting beauty. Even when come to last longer in bed, man alwyas want an instant solution to it. One of the famous instant solution is applying sprays that most men are looking for. Does this really work?  Does this give fullest satisfaction to both couple to last hours ? Let’s find out the truth of it:-

Can you feel the thing?

Go to the shops and you can see those topical sprays claim their product work through numbing agent. If you can think what numbing means. It means that your man’s sensation is getting lower so that you don’t feel easily arouse thus making your ejaculation longer. Low or lack of arousal during sex, is this what you want?

Using sprays will limit your enjoyment of sexual arousal. Not only you, your female partner will also affected when those sprays tend to rub off on her sensitive parts during intercourse. Think of it, you want to last longer in intercourse because you want to satisfy her but numbing her most sensitive parts will not be the best way to help her in achieving her climax.

But that doesn’t mean that those sprays is useless. It is of help when you need a quick fix when your date turn to sexual. Still those topical sprays are not solution in managing your premature ejaculation.

Don’t you feel embarrase when you have to run to the bathroom to apply the spray each time you want to start the intercourse. Further, it does not look manly when you have to rely on a  bottle of foreign assistance to make you last longer in bed.

Then, what is good to cure your premature ejaculation?

If you want to remedy your early ejaculation premanently, then you have to look for a solution that will permanently resolve the underlying cause of it and not a temporary fix. The only way is to seek a natural one so that there will be not side effect on your man.

Forgo those product that are giving temporary fix if you want to cure your premature ejaculation. To get a result that will last, more time , effort and discipline are needed. This can be done by re-programming your ejaculation reflexes through natural training and techniques. It is not an instant solution, but at the end you will be getting the physical and mental ability that can make you the wanted man in bed!